XiaoYu's Blog

I went to the Xi Hu cultural square yesterday
Aug 29, 2009 | 11:46 PM PST

It was a nice day, no rain and so strong light, just a good day. My new girlfriend and I went to the Xi Hu cultural square, which is in the center of the city. We saw the highest building in the square. It is 41 floors and 170 meters in height. However, it is not the highest one in Hangzhou. There is a state nature museum and a science exhibition hall. It is new and beautiful. As you see in the picture, the tallest building is 170 meters in height. I don't know why the government built such high building. Once there is a fire disaster, it will be very dangerous.

 On the square, there are some flowers in the borders. I planted Barbat Skullcap years ago, however, these I found in the borders are so big. So I took picture of them.  It's a pity that I didn't use contrasting objects, else you will see how different the flowers are.

 I also found some other beautiful flowers, just share them with you.

The small battery in the camera ran out of power. So I have to adjust the date when I open it. So boring, so you may see that the date is wrong. Sorry.

The second failure
Aug 19, 2009 | 5:23 AM PST

We went to the Qian Dao lake last weekend and had a drift between the mountains.

I guess these who care about me know what happened to me at the glance of the title. Yeah, I failed again on love.

I invited her last night for dinner. We had supper in the Steaking. Have you ever heard of it? Well, never mind. After we had the lunch. I couldn't help to tell her what I felt about our relationship. I didn't say her fault or something like that. Just told her what I thought and felt while didn't hurt her. I knew she also have something to say. Yeah, she said that I'm a good boy and can be a good husband. However, she had no feeling of me. She didn't like me since we had so many thing different. What's more, she said that I'm lack of self-confident and definite idea. I admitted that I have such shortcomings. However, to my surprisement, she said that I had read too much books and received too much education. She even said I'm an odd fellow and asked some stupid questions that even primary students would not ask.

Wow, I guess I must see a mental doctor. I really asked some stupid questions to her. However, I only do it before her. I mean perhaps I became stupid with her. Whether it is true or not, she should say that to me. Not even a man, but also a girl would be hurt when her or his friend say such words.

We talked much, mainly on our relationship and the current situation. From what she said, I think she thought that's my fault which cause such results. What can I say? Say some of her faults? I don't think it's a good method. I just listen to her and try to correct her thoughts. I tried not hurt her. I thought that's a gentleman should do. And I also thought that she may think it's a kind of lack of self-confident or something like that. Perhaps she should marry a debater.

We went to another city last weekend and had a drift on a mountain. It cost us several hours to reach there. And the surrounds are so beautiful. However, I'm not in a good state. She talked much to her male workmate and female friend. I had no interest in their topics though I did join in sometimes. I didn't act well before her friends. So she heard some negtive thoughts on me from her friends. Actually, I'm not what they thought. I just acted odd before her. She's a clever girl, why didn't she know. She must remember my real behave at the first appointment. I thought I'm formal then.

From my last two experience on love, I found that I have made some mistakes. And I also learned the lessons. I'm sure I made a step to success in each failure. Whatever happend between us, I just hope we can be happy in our life. The life is not long, we should enjoy our life.

 

 

I found a Radix Talini paniculati in our garden
Aug 15, 2009 | 7:13 PM PST

Well, long time no see, my friend. I'm busy these days because of the job and girlfriend.

I found a new Mirabilis jalapa. In a scientific paper, in which the author mentioned that there is white Mirabilis jalapa. I haven't seen it yet, how about you? It mentioned that the Mirabilis jalapa can be used to remedy the heavy metal polluted soil. You know my work is to make suitable chemicals to treat those polluted soil or slurry. Sounds interesting.

What's more, I found a Radix Talini paniculati in our garden. When it was yound, I knew it is not a grass, so special. Well, after waiting for several weeks, it blooms. The flower is small, but so cute, and I found some ants on it. It can be used to treat disease, such as cough. I don't know too much.

Well, I'm tired these days, especially my heart. I thought it only cost smental damage to find a girlfriend. However, I feel that my heart is also tired these days. It's really terrible, will it cause heart disease? Perhaps I should not think too much, but another girl came into my life, whose work is to take babies to the world. What should I do?

 I like my girlfriend, she's beautiful and slim. But we have different hobbies, such as she loves exciting games and horrible movie. I love quiet things, such as flowers, old buildings, historical towns. We don't talk too much when we're together. She may find I'm boring. And I think she doesn't like me. We have different thoughts on our topics and she seems like to disprove me. I'm not happy with her, but I like her. She is clever in daily life. I need my wife that could take care of me. She also wants such kind of man who can take care of her. Maybe I'm not such kind of man. I must lose my logic, sorry.

The flower garden and some other pictures.
Aug 8, 2009 | 4:10 AM PST

Remember my Mirabilis jalapa? Well, I found two more special flowers these days. According to the regulation, there will be more special one. I will try to find all of them. It's just time.

 

I cut a leaf of Gloxinia several weeks ago and put it into the waterish sand. Well, you see a bud comes out of the sand now. A new Gloxinia born.

I went to a garden last weekend and took some pictures. I was busy these days, so upload them today. There are so many Water Lily in a lake. They have yellow, white and pink flowers. So beafutiful.

Do you know this plant? The flower looks like Pansy. But I guess it is not Pansy. Anyway, it is beautiful.

Shorttube Lycoris Bulb has no leaves when it blossoms, and with so many flowers. A very interesting flower.

I found some Hemerocallis Fulva in the garden. As I remember I uploaded some of its flowers last year. But since it's beautiful, let's enjoy it again.

I found a very interesting spider net in the garden. Have you ever seen such kind of net before?

This must be the biggest church in my hometown. I have never entered into it. I just know it these days. Some of you may be very familar with it. I guess there are only a few followers here. But the building is splendid. Actually it's very big from a side view.